What are you curious about?

Frequently Asked Questions

Because apparently nobody teaches you what to do with all that... enthusiasm.

Sex can be amazing. It can also be messy, sweaty, sticky, surprising, and occasionally all of the above.

We've been making products for those moments for a long time, so we've collected the questions we hear most often—from "What exactly is a sex towel?" to "Can I throw this thing in the washing machine?"

Ask away. We've got you. ❤️

🧡 ABOUT NECTAR NAPKINS

What is Nectar Napkins?

Nectar Napkins is an intimacy lifestyle brand created to make closeness a little more fun—and a lot less stressful.

We make purpose-built products for intimate moments, including our signature Lovers' Towels, Lovers' Blankets, toy mats, apparel, laundry bags, totes and more.

But we're about more than cleanup.

We believe intimacy is one of the most important parts of a relationship—not just sex, but closeness, affection, laughter, connection and everything that makes two people feel like two people who actually like each other.

Sex just amplifies it. ❤️

Who is Nectar Napkins for?

Pretty much anyone who believes intimacy should be fun.

Couples. Partners. Newlyweds. Long-term lovers. People dating. People shopping for gifts. People who like to laugh. People who aren't afraid to try something new.

You don't have to fit a particular mold to belong here.

Open-minded is more than enough.

Is Nectar Napkins a sex-toy company?

Nope!

We're an intimacy lifestyle brand.

Some of our products are designed specifically for intimate moments and cleanup, while others are designed to make relationships, gifting and everyday life together a little more fun.

Think less "adult novelty shop" and more:

We really like love.

Who is The Cum Towel Queen?

She's the heart and creative soul behind Nectar Napkins—and the woman responsible for the colorful, clever and sometimes downright naughty ideas that make Nectar what it is.

She's our product designer, creative mastermind, blogger and the person who somehow manages to turn "Wouldn't it be funny if..." into an actual product.

There is only one Cum Towel Queen. 👑

Why are Nectar Napkins products so colorful and different?

Because we don't believe intimacy has to look one particular way.

Some people like cute.

Some like sexy.

Some like funny.

Some like a little naughty.

Some like things that make their friends say, "You bought WHAT?"

So we make products across the spectrum.

You bring the personality. We'll bring the Nectar Napkins.

🛏️ SEX TOWELS & INTIMACY

What is a sex towel?

A sex towel is simply a towel dedicated to intimate moments and cleanup.

Instead of grabbing your bath towel, beach towel, an old T-shirt, or whatever happens to be closest when things get messy, you keep a towel specifically for those moments.

Use it. Toss it in the laundry. Repeat.

It's really that simple.

And yes, we've made ours considerably more fun than a random bathroom towel.

Why do I need a dedicated sex towel?

Technically? You don't.

You can use a regular towel.

But your bath towel already has a job. Your beach towel has a job. And that random towel you've been keeping in the back of the closet probably has enough stories of its own.

A dedicated sex towel means you always have something ready for intimate cleanup without sacrificing the towel you use for everything else.

Your bath towel has enough responsibilities already.

Can I just use a regular towel?

Absolutely.

We're not here to arrest you for grabbing the nearest towel. 😂

But a dedicated towel is convenient because you always know what it's for, where it is and when it needs to head to the laundry.

And let's be honest...

Nectar Napkins are a lot more fun than the old towel from the back of the linen closet.

When should I use my Nectar Napkins towel?

Whenever you need it.

Use it before, during or after intimacy. Keep it nearby for cleanup, place it underneath you to help protect your sheets, or grab it afterward.

There's no Nectar Napkins rulebook for having fun.

We recommend using your towel wherever it makes your intimate life easier.

Can two people use the same Nectar Napkins towel?

Absolutely.

That's one reason we offer different sizes.

Our larger Classic Lovers' Towels give partners plenty of room to share, while our smaller options are convenient for individual cleanup, keeping nearby or taking along when you're traveling.

And if you both want your own towel?

We support that decision wholeheartedly. 😂

What can I use a Nectar Napkins towel for?

Nectar Napkins towels are designed for intimate moments and cleanup.

Depending on the product and how you use it, that can include cleanup after sex or masturbation, helping protect your sheets, handling sweat or body fluids, or keeping nearby during intimate play.

Some people keep one beside the bed. Some keep one in a drawer. Some pack one for travel.

Basically:

If things are about to get messy, you know where your Nectar Napkin is.

Can I use a Nectar Napkins towel for solo play?

Absolutely.

Sex doesn't have to involve two people to make a mess.

If you're looking for a dedicated towel for solo play and cleanup, Nectar Napkins is happy to volunteer.

Can I use a Nectar towel with lubricant?

Yes. Our towels are designed for intimate cleanup, including situations where lubricant may be involved.

For the best results, follow the care instructions for your specific product and wash it after use.

Can I use a Nectar Napkins towel with sex toys?

You can use a Nectar Napkins towel to help keep the surrounding area tidy while using sex toys.

However, Nectar towels are not toy-cleaning or disinfecting products. Always follow the cleaning and care instructions provided by the manufacturer of your specific toy.

Is a sex towel actually necessary?

Necessary?

Technically, no.

Neither are matching pajamas, champagne, candles, date nights or lingerie.

But some things make life more enjoyable.

A dedicated intimacy towel means you don't have to sacrifice your bath towel—or your sheets—every time things get a little enthusiastic.

We happen to think that's worth it.

Isn't a sex towel just a regular towel with a funny name?

We get the question.

At its most basic level, yes—a sex towel is still a towel.

But the difference is purpose.

Your bath towel is for bathing.

Your beach towel is for the beach.

Your kitchen towel has seen things nobody should discuss.

Your Nectar Napkins?

That one's for getting messy.

💋 WHICH NECTAR NAPKINS PRODUCT IS RIGHT FOR ME?

What's the difference between the OG, Lils', Classics and XL Towels?

They're different sizes and constructions designed for different needs.

OG Towel

11" × 18"

The OG is compact, easy to keep nearby and made with a 100% polyester front and 100% cotton loop backing.

Lils' Towel

13" × 13"

Our compact option for convenient cleanup and easy storage.

It features a 100% polyester front and 100% cotton back.

Classics Towel

28" × 16"

Our larger Lovers' Towel option, made with 52% polyester and 48% cotton.

It's a great choice when you want more coverage.

XL Towel

30" × 60"

The big one.

The XL features a printable polyester mink front and absorbent cotton backside, with a 50% polyester / 50% cotton fabric composition and 360 GSM weight.

When you want a whole lot more towel, this is your Nectar Napkin.

Which Nectar Napkins towel should I buy first?

If you're new to Nectar Napkins and want a versatile option with plenty of coverage, the Classics Towel is a great place to start, and our personal favorite

Want something smaller and more compact? Check out the OG or Lils'.

Want serious coverage? Go XL.

Want even more coverage for your bed or a larger surface? Take a look at our Lovers' Blankets and water-resistant blankets.

Still not sure?

We're happy to help you find your perfect Nectar Napkins product.

What's the difference between a sex towel and a sex blanket?

Think of them as two different tools for intimate moments.

A towel is portable, convenient and great for quick cleanup or keeping nearby.

A Lovers' Blanket gives you a much larger surface area when you want more coverage.

Our water-resistant blanket takes that idea even further with a soft polyester fleece/mink-style top and a water-resistant oxford-cloth backing.

They're not necessarily competing products.

For some couples, having both makes the perfect setup.

Which product is best for protecting my bed?

That depends on how much coverage and protection you're looking for.

Our towels provide a convenient, washable surface for intimate moments, while our larger blankets provide substantially more coverage.

If you're specifically looking for a water-resistant barrier, our water-resistant blanket is designed with a water-resistant oxford-cloth backing.

Which Nectar Napkins product is best for travel?

For travel, smaller products are generally easier to pack.

Our OG and Lils' Towels are convenient options when luggage space is limited.

Our water-resistant blanket also includes a black carrying strap with buckles, making it easy to fold up and take along.

What is the water-resistant sex blanket?

Our water-resistant sex blanket is a larger, take-along blanket designed for situations where you want a soft surface on top and water-resistant protection underneath.

It measures:

61" × 51"

The top is made from soft mink polyester, while the underside is made from black water-resistant oxford cloth.

It also includes a black carrying strap with buckles.

One side features the printed design.

Soft on top. Water-resistant underneath. Ready for adventure.

What are Lovers' Blankets made of?

Lovers' Blankets are available in different fabric constructions depending on the production option.

They may be made from:

  • 100% polyester, or
  • 83% polyester / 17% spandex

They feature a medium-heavyweight fabric of approximately 300 GSM (8.85 oz/yd²) and are designed to feel extra soft to the touch.

The print appears on one side of the blanket.

Because material composition can vary by specific blanket, always check the individual product page for the exact specifications of the design you're purchasing.

What are Nectar Napkins Toy Mats?

Our Adult Toy Mats are designed to give your sex toys a dedicated place to land.

Use them as a drawer liner, on your nightstand, or on your bed during play.

They're made from 100% cotton and measure:

18" × 14"

One side features the printed design.

Because your toys deserve better than being tossed on the nightstand.

🧺 WASHING & CARE

Are Nectar Napkins machine washable?

Yes!

Our products are designed to be washable, but care instructions vary by product.

Always check the care instructions for your specific item.

How do I wash my OG Towel?

Machine wash warm, up to 105°F / 40°C.

Do not bleach.

Tumble dry low.

Do not iron.

Do not dry clean.

How do I wash my Lils' Towel?

Machine wash separately in cold water, up to 90°F / 30°C, using a gentle cycle.

Do not bleach.

Tumble dry low.

Do not iron.

Do not dry clean.

How do I wash my Classics Towel?

Machine wash separately in cold water, up to 90°F / 30°C, using a gentle cycle.

Do not bleach.

Tumble dry low.

Do not iron.

Do not dry clean.

How do I wash my XL Towel?

Machine wash cold, up to 90°F / 30°C.

Do not bleach.

Do not iron.

Tumble dry low.

How do I wash my water-resistant blanket?

Machine wash separately in cold water, up to 90°F / 30°C, using a gentle cycle.

Do not bleach.

Tumble dry low.

Do not iron.

Do not dry clean.

How do I wash my Lovers' Blanket?

Machine wash cold, up to 90°F / 30°C.

Do not bleach.

Do not iron.

Tumble dry low.

Do not dry clean.

Hand washing is recommended when possible to help extend the quality of the product.

How do I care for my Toy Mat?

Toy Mats are made from 100% cotton.

Machine wash cold, up to 90°F / 30°C.

Do not bleach.

Do not tumble dry.

Iron, steam or dry at low heat.

Do not dry clean.

How do I care for my graphic T-shirt?

Our graphic tees use the Gildan 5000 Heavy Cotton Tee, made from 100% cotton.

Machine wash cold.

Tumble dry low.

Non-chlorine bleach may be used as needed.

Do not iron.

Do not dry clean.

For best results with printed designs, wash the shirt inside-out.

How do I wash my laundry bag?

Our custom laundry bags are made from 100% spun polyester and are available in:

18" × 29"

They feature an all-over print, woven shoulder strap and drawstring closure.

Machine wash cold, up to 90°F / 30°C, using a gentle cycle and mild detergent.

Non-chlorine bleach may be used as needed.

Tumble dry low.

How do I care for my tote bag?

Our custom-printed tote bags are made from 100% spun polyester.

They feature double-stitched seams, cotton webbing straps and a nonwoven laminate lining.

To clean:

  1. Remove everything from the bag.
  2. Pretreat visible stains with stain remover.
  3. Mix warm water with laundry detergent.
  4. Clean using a terry washcloth or soft-bristle brush.
  5. Allow the bag to air dry.
Will my Nectar Napkins products stain?

Intimate fluids can stain fabric, particularly if they're allowed to sit for an extended period.

For best results, don't let heavily soiled fabric sit around forever.

Follow the care instructions for your specific product and wash it appropriately after use.

How often should I wash my sex towel?

After each use.

We know.

Groundbreaking. 😂

If your towel has been used for intimate cleanup, wash it before its next adventure.

📦 ORDERS, PRODUCTION & SHIPPING

How long will my order take?

All Nectar Napkins products are made just for you through print-on-demand, so there's a short production period before your order ships.

Production time: 3–4 business days

U.S. shipping: 5–14 business days

International shipping: 10–20 business days

For U.S. orders, the estimated total delivery time is approximately:

5–17 business days

We know that's a little longer than ordering something from a giant warehouse and having it show up tomorrow.

But your Nectar Napkins are being made specifically for you.

Worth the wait? We think so. ❤️

Can I get expedited shipping?

We don't currently offer expedited production or expedited shipping options.

We're always looking for ways to get your goodies to you faster, though, so keep an eye out for future updates.

Where does Nectar Napkins ship?

We ship both within the United States and internationally.

International orders generally have longer shipping times than U.S. orders.

Will my order arrive discreetly?

Absolutely.

Your order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with no suggestive branding on the outside.

The return label will show our company name, Nectar Napkins, and nothing more.

Will the package say what I ordered?

No suggestive product information is printed on the outside of your package.

Your order arrives in plain, unmarked packaging.

Can I track my order?

Yes.

Once your order has shipped and tracking information becomes available, you'll receive the applicable shipping notification and tracking information via email or SMS.

What happens if my package is delayed?

If your order is outside the estimated delivery window or you believe something has gone wrong with your shipment, contact us with your order number and we'll help you figure out what's happening.

↩️ RETURNS, EXCHANGES & ORDER PROBLEMS

What's your return policy?

Because our products are made to order specifically for you, we're unable to accept returns for sizing issues or changes of mind.

However, if your item arrives damaged, defective or incorrect, we'll make it right.

For complete details, please see our Refund Policy.

Can I return something if I change my mind?

Because our products are made to order, we cannot accept returns simply because you've changed your mind.

That's one of the tradeoffs of having your product made specifically for you.

We'd rather make it clear up front than surprise you afterward.

Can I return something because I ordered the wrong size?

Because products are made to order, we cannot accept returns or exchanges due to sizing issues.

We strongly recommend checking the dimensions and product information before placing your order.

If you're unsure which product or size is right for you, contact us before ordering and we'll be happy to help.

What if my product arrives damaged?

If your product arrives damaged, defective or otherwise has a manufacturing issue, contact us and we'll make it right.

Please include your order number and a photo of the issue so we can help resolve it as quickly as possible.

What if I received the wrong product?

If you received something different from what you ordered, contact us at info@nectarnapkins.com with your order number and a photo of the item you received.

We'll take it from there.

How do I report a problem with my order?

Send us an email at info@nectarnapkins.com.

Please include:

  • Your order number
  • A description of the problem
  • Photos of the product or issue, when applicable

The more information you give us, the faster we can help.

🔐 PRIVACY & DISCRETION

Is my purchase private?

We take your privacy seriously.

Your order is shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no suggestive branding on the outside.

Your return label will show Nectar Napkins as the company name.

For information about how we collect, use and protect your personal information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Will my package say "Nectar Napkins" on it?

The return label will show Nectar Napkins as the company name.

The outside of the package will otherwise be plain and unmarked with no suggestive branding.

What will appear on my credit-card statement?

Your payment statement may display the applicable merchant or company descriptor associated with your purchase.

Do you sell my personal information?

See our Privacy Policy for complete information about how Nectar Napkins handles customer information and privacy.

❤️ THE NECTAR NAPKINS EXPERIENCE

Are you embarrassed to buy a sex towel?

Maybe a little.

That's okay.

Sex is still one of those things people can feel weird talking about—even when they're having it.

We're here to make the practical part a little less awkward and the fun part a little more fun.

You don't have to explain yourself to us.

Just enjoy your Nectar Napkins.

Is Nectar Napkins a joke?

We're funny.

We're playful.

We absolutely enjoy a good double entendre.

But we're not a novelty company.

We make real products for real intimate moments, and we care a ridiculous amount about quality.

The joke might get your attention.

The product has to earn your repeat purchase.

Do you make custom products?

Sorry, unfortunately at this time we do not offer any customizations. Check back at a later.

Can I become a Nectar Napkins creator or affiliate?

We're always interested in connecting with people who genuinely love the brand and want to share it with their audience.

Contact us to find out what opportunities are currently available.

How can I contact Nectar Napkins?

We're real people behind this brand—not a giant faceless corporation.

For questions about orders, products or anything else Nectar-related, contact us at:

info@nectarnapkins.com

We'll do our best to get back to you as quickly as possible.

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